Why is it that we often do not do what we really would like to do? Where does that inner voice come from that stops us from living life to the full? Yes-but as an attitude towards life can hardly be called fruitful. It makes us careful, sceptial and suspicious. After all, thinking about life is something different from partaking in it. If we are not careful, we will weigh up the pros and cons so long that all opportunities will have passed us by and we will have become bystanders of our own life.